I decided it was time I tell Brian I'm not who he thinks I am. I'm 16 and I have to know if he will accept me for who I am. I've changed and turned my life around. Will he still accept me, knowing I'm not "pure"?
We were on the way to someones house to help them move something. It's kind of vague because my mind was on other things. How do I say it? How do I deal with this if he wants nothing to do with someone who's not "pure"? I figure it's best to just get through with it and move on if I must!
We pull up to the house and I say, "I have something to tell you, Brian. It may hurt you but I have to tell you." I have his full attention. *deep breath* The tears start to flow! I'm frightened! I can't get the words to come out. He pries a little and I say them, looking into his eyes. "I'm not a virgin."
He was amazingly calm. His next reply took me back. He said "I know." His next reply took me even more by surprise! He said something about how he had a voice come to his mind telling him that's what I was going to say, and that It was not my fault. In my mind I was shocked and didn't believe what I was hearing. How did he know? Why did he not think it wasn't my fault? Who told him? How much did he know? I felt totally exposed and uncomfortable!
It wasn't till later when we got back into the car to go home did we talk about it exactly. My biggest fears about our relationship had been lifted off my shoulders. He learned a little bit about my childhood and my choices as I got older and still wanted to continue our relationship! I was preparing for the worst and received the best! Our friendship and relationship hit another level of trust and love!
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